You ask if he will come back and whether he misses you. The Nine of Wands shows him standing guard, worn and watchful; he is not closing the door, but he is not inviting you in. He does miss parts of you, familiarity and what felt safe, yet his instinct is caution. Any movement toward you will be tentative; for a genuine return he must feel safe and see steady proof. Expect this to unfold over the coming weeks to a couple of months as he tests the ground.
So hold your boundary and keep your responses measured: no chasing, clear limits, and look for repeated actions rather than theatrical words. If he does return it will be slow and steady; if he doesn’t, protect the ground you’ve gained. Let consistency, not sympathy, be the gatekeeper.