Between You and Her, a tarot guide by Selena 70 pages

A tarot guide by Selena

Between You and Her

The tarot guide to the other woman, the doubt, and what he's really choosing

70pages
35cards read
4spreads

His phone lights up face down on the nightstand, and you tell yourself it's nothing. Is there someone else?

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  • 🃏 35 cards read for this question, and 4 spreads to lay out yourself
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Something has shifted. The phone goes with him to the bathroom now, there's a new password, and a name that used to come up easily in conversation lately doesn't come up at all. You aren't being dramatic. Suspicion is rarely conjured out of nothing, and a pattern you've noticed is information, even when nobody around you wants to hear about it.

Information is different from a conclusion, though, and that's where the cards earn their place. A reading can describe the role a third person plays, the kind of pull she has and how much room she takes up in his attention. It can't give you her initials, convict anyone, or promise you how things end between him and her. A Seven of Swords says something is being kept out of view, and the cards around it tell you whether that secret is a woman, a debt or a job interview he hasn't mentioned.

This book teaches you to hold a reading about someone who isn't at the table. Part One shows how a third person tends to appear in a spread, through a court card that doesn't belong, crowded Threes and Fives, and Swords full of words not spoken. Part Two reads thirty-five cards for this one situation, from the Three of Cups and the four Queens to the cards of the one left out and the cards that bring you back to yourself.

In Part Three you lay the Triangle spread I use most, along with What Am I Sensing, Does He Choose and the Clarity spread, and you watch three readings worked through. Part Four takes the situations women bring me again and again: he's changed and I can't name why, he still talks to his ex, is it just friendship, he left me for her, he's married and says he'll leave. There's also a chapter, with no lecture in it, for the woman reading from the third corner.

When you finish, you'll have a way to separate what you've seen from what you fear, a plan for the nights when the doubt gets loud, and a steadier hold on the one corner of the triangle you can actually move, which is your own.

What's inside

  • ✦35 cards read for triangles, doubt and divided hearts, with the 1909 images
  • ✦Every card read upright, reversed, and for the moment it tends to show up
  • ✦How a third person shows up in a spread, and how to read her card
  • ✦What the cards can and can't show about someone who isn't at the table
  • ✦The Triangle spread: five cards for you, him, her, what binds, where it's heading
  • ✦What Am I Sensing, Does He Choose and the Clarity spread, position by position
  • ✦Three worked readings, including Does He Choose read from the third corner
  • ✦Ten situations, from the ex he still texts to the husband who says he'll leave
  • ✦Seven things to do with the doubt tonight, and how to live with not knowing
  • ✦Six journal prompts for the nights when the doubt gets loud

This book is for you if

  • ♡he's changed lately and you can't put your finger on why
  • ♡a woman's name keeps coming up, or suddenly stopped
  • ♡you lie awake deciding whether to confront him or wait
  • ♡he's married and keeps saying he'll leave
  • ♡you're the other woman and you carry it alone

The five parts of the book

  1. 1 How the cards speak about a third person
  2. 2 The triangle cards, one by one
  3. 3 Spreads you can lay out yourself
  4. 4 Reading the patterns
  5. 5 The practice

Spreads in this book: The Triangle spread · What Am I Sensing · Does He Choose · The Clarity spread

“You can't read his phone from here, but you can read the shape of what's happening, and your own place in it.”
from Between You and Her

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About Selena

I've been reading the cards for twenty years, mostly for women standing at a threshold: a love that won't become clear, a silence that has gone on too long, a decision that keeps them awake at two in the morning. Tarot is a mirror, not a crystal ball. My work is to translate what it shows honestly, and to say it with enough care that you can use it.

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Questions about the books

Each guide is an illustrated PDF of about 70 pages, laid out at 6 by 9 inches like a printed book. The original 1909 card images appear in color, and every spread is drawn as a diagram so you can copy it onto your table.
Right away. You'll receive an email with your download link, and the book also stays in your account on selenatarot.com, so you can download it again whenever you need it.
Yes. The PDF opens on any phone, tablet or computer. You can send it to your Kindle with Amazon's Send to Kindle, and because the pages are sized like a paperback, it prints cleanly at home if you'd rather have paper next to your deck.
No. A guide teaches you to read your question for yourself, with your own deck, as often as you need. A personal reading is me looking at your cards for your situation. When a question feels too close to read on your own, and some do, you can ask me.
Write to me and tell me what happened. I read every message, and we'll sort it out together.
Yes. All five are also on Amazon in paperback and for Kindle, if you'd like a printed copy on your shelf or the books in your Kindle library.
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