What Is He Really Feeling?, a tarot guide by Selena 69 pages

A tarot guide by Selena

What Is He Really Feeling?

The tarot guide to his heart, his doubts, and his mixed signals

69pages
35cards read
5spreads

He was warm on Sunday and distant by Wednesday, and you keep asking what he actually feels for you.

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  • 📖 69 illustrated pages, with the original 1909 cards
  • 🃏 35 cards read for this question, and 5 spreads to lay out yourself
  • 💜 Yours to keep: read it on your phone, tablet or Kindle, or print it
$19.00

You've been keeping a careful record in your head: the night he called just to talk, the three days he barely answered, the way he looked at you and then said he wasn't ready. Trying to read a man's heart from the outside is tiring work. Wanting a real answer doesn't make you needy. It makes you someone who cares and would like to stop guessing.

The cards are good at emotional temperature. They show warmth or coolness, longing or confusion, what draws him toward you and what makes him pull back, and whether his feeling is moving out into action or staying locked inside him. They can't hand you a transcript of his thoughts or make his choices for him. A man can care and still hold back, and this book shows you how to read both when they land side by side.

Part One teaches you to read another person's heart, with Cups for what he feels, Wands for what he wants, Swords for what he fears and Pentacles for what he's willing to build, plus the three questions I ask to tell whether a card is about him or about you. Part Two reads thirty-five cards for one question: the cards that say he cares, like the Two of Cups and the Knight of Pentacles, the cards of a heart held back, like the Four of Pentacles and the Hermit, and four cards to read slowly, the Devil and the Seven of Swords among them.

The spreads follow: What Does He Really Feel, the five card Mixed Signals spread, Heart and Head, and Your Heart and His, with worked examples. Part Four takes the situations women bring me in their own words: he's hot and cold, he says he's not ready, he pulled away after we got close, does he miss me, he came back and left again, is it love or habit.

By the last page you'll be able to look at his heart with steadier eyes, you'll know what to do when the answer is warm and moving, warm and stuck, or cool, and you'll have a four week practice for turning the same gentle attention toward what you feel, which matters as much as anything in his cards.

What's inside

  • ✦35 cards read for his heart, each with the original 1909 image
  • ✦Every card read upright, reversed, and for the moment it tends to show up
  • ✦The four suits as four kinds of feeling: what he feels, wants, fears and builds
  • ✦Three questions to tell whether a card is about him or about you
  • ✦Four cards to read slowly, the ones most often misread in a panic
  • ✦The Mixed Signals spread: five cards for what he shows, feels, fears and wants
  • ✦What Does He Really Feel, Heart and Head, and Your Heart and His
  • ✦Twelve situations in women's own words, from hot and cold to does he regret it
  • ✦What to do with a warm, a stuck or a cool answer, and a four week practice
  • ✦Seven journal prompts for after a reading about him

This book is for you if

  • ♡he's hot and cold and you can't find the pattern
  • ♡he said he's not ready, then kept acting like he cares
  • ♡you wonder whether he misses you the way you miss him
  • ♡you keep reading his texts for a feeling he won't name
  • ♡you'd like to know what you feel, too

The five parts of the book

  1. 1 Reading another person's heart in the cards
  2. 2 His heart, card by card
  3. 3 Spreads for reading his heart
  4. 4 The patterns women ask me about most
  5. 5 The practice

Spreads in this book: What Does He Really Feel · The Mixed Signals spread · Heart and Head · Your Heart and His · The daily pull about him

“A man can feel a great deal and still decide not to act, and a man can feel very little and still be kind to you.”
from What Is He Really Feeling?

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Selena

About Selena

I've been reading the cards for twenty years, mostly for women standing at a threshold: a love that won't become clear, a silence that has gone on too long, a decision that keeps them awake at two in the morning. Tarot is a mirror, not a crystal ball. My work is to translate what it shows honestly, and to say it with enough care that you can use it.

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Questions about the books

Each guide is an illustrated PDF of about 70 pages, laid out at 6 by 9 inches like a printed book. The original 1909 card images appear in color, and every spread is drawn as a diagram so you can copy it onto your table.
Right away. You'll receive an email with your download link, and the book also stays in your account on selenatarot.com, so you can download it again whenever you need it.
Yes. The PDF opens on any phone, tablet or computer. You can send it to your Kindle with Amazon's Send to Kindle, and because the pages are sized like a paperback, it prints cleanly at home if you'd rather have paper next to your deck.
No. A guide teaches you to read your question for yourself, with your own deck, as often as you need. A personal reading is me looking at your cards for your situation. When a question feels too close to read on your own, and some do, you can ask me.
Write to me and tell me what happened. I read every message, and we'll sort it out together.
Yes. All five are also on Amazon in paperback and for Kindle, if you'd like a printed copy on your shelf or the books in your Kindle library.
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